Proposal Day!® is on the days of the Equinox:
Proposal Day!® honors & celebrates marriage proposals while providing a graceful way for singles seeking marriage to reveal their marriage-minded intentions to a true love on the day of their choice during the year.
The Vernal Equinox Proposal Day!® Holiday will be celebrated the weekend of March 19th & 20th, 2016.
We all know that Valentine's Day on February 14th provides an excellent opportunity to send a greeting card to an eligible single we find lovable, and the goal is expressing our fondness and letting the person we love know how we feel about them. And, for those of us single and seeking marriage, then among those we find lovable it's inevitable that eventually there'll be a special someone we'll believe is eminently suitable or attractive for marriage. Many singles in China use Singles Day on November 11th as an occasion to let the one they love know how they feel. Everywhere around the world, once you find someone you consider marriageable, it's only natural that you'll start to imagine what it might be like to become engaged and then married to this wonderful person.
Here's what can happen when an eligible single has fallen in love and begins to think about marriage.... He or she knows who it is they want to marry "someday", and hopes that the one they love feels the same way about them. What they wonder is if they are looked at as a real friend and potential spouse, or merely as someone who's fun to date, but not considered suitable for marriage? They hope that it's possible the one they love is already seriously considering them as a potential spouse. And, if so, then how best to find it out?
This stall speed "mutual reticence" might continue when neither in the relationship makes it clear to the other that they want to be considered as a potential spouse and a candidate for marriage. If both in the relationship show reluctance to make their true feelings known, then this kind of "standoff" can go on and on for years.... and, to quote Albert Einstein, nothing will happen until something moves! If you want your relationship to move forward, often you must be the one willing to generate motion and take action to do so.
Sending a Proposal Day!® card to your true love is a decisive act that is designed to generate real motion in your relationship; either excitement and interest in the possibility of marriage to you, or a distinct lack of enthusiasm for the idea of marrying you that makes you understand that the two of you might always remain friends, but it's not likely you'll ever marry each other. The Proposal Day!® card helps to make the upcoming fork in the road ahead in the relationship clear. Will your relationship with the "true love" you hope to marry be based in future years on your goal of marriage or remain one of mutual friendship and mutual respect?
When you know who it is you want to marry, then the Proposal Day!® Holiday presents an opportunity to raise the subject of marriage proposals in a light-hearted and non-threating manner at any time during the six months leading up to the Holiday, and it's a low-key and gentle way to get the one you love to pause and start to think about what it might be like to have you as their spouse. Once this process has started, then you have every chance in the world to be seriously considered as a potential spouse by the one you love.
It's an excellent way to let the one you love and hope to marry know that you consider them one of your "true loves", and therefore among the most eligible ten thousand singles meant for you in the whole wide world...you're declaring yourself as interested in taking their hand in marriage and that you're entirely willing for them to approach you with a proposal of marriage. By sending the Proposal Day!® card you're expressing your interest, desire, and the firm belief that you're a worthy potential spouse to the one you love, and doing this is about as close as you can get to a marriage proposal without actually proposing!
Once you send a Proposal Day!® card, it's virtually certain that you'll soon learn if the one you wish to marry views you as one of their "true loves" or not by his or her reaction to your card. A high level of enthusiasm shown by the one you love for the idea of becoming your spouse will generate momentum that is quite likely to lead to a marriage proposal and to you and your true love becoming formally engaged to be married. An indication of interest and wanting to talk it all over with you is a good sign, too. It means you're being taken seriously and the door is now opened for discussion on the subject. An absence of enthusiasm shown by the one you love. reluctance to discuss the subject, and/or resistance expressed to the idea of the two of you deepening your relationship means you are trying to become closer and more intimate with someone who is either not one of your ten thousand "true loves" and is therefore not meant for you, or might truly be among those ten thousand who are meant for you, but not yet ready to consider the idea of marriage. It'd almost certainly be a mistake for you to continue trying to marry someone who's not meant for you, and waiting for someone to become ready for marriage can go on for a really, really long time, even decades, so... After a few months, which are months that can easily turn into a year or two of waiting with no results seen, it's time to examine the idea that future matrimonial efforts will be better made to a person who is among your "true loves" and is enthusiastic about the idea of the two of you becoming a couple and on-board with the idea of getting engaged, setting a date for the wedding, and becoming your spouse.
The upcoming "Proposal Day!"® Holiday is never more than six months away, and just as a marriage proposal can be made on any day of the year, the Proposal Day!® card can be sent to your true love on any day leading up to the next "Proposal Day!"®, even if it's not coming up for months. If your true love is one of those ten thousand meant for you and your deep desire to marry your true love is genuine and they feel the same way that you do, your letting them know you find them marriageable will be incredibly welcome news to them. It doesn't matter in the slightest what day of the year that they learn this because the best day for them to know this is the day that you choose to share this secret you've been carrying alone......send your card! On any day throughout the year, you can send your true love a "Proposal Day!"® card revealing your own personal choices for the title of "Most Eligible Bachelor" and "Most Eligible Bachelorette" for the next upcoming Proposal Day!® Holiday, thereby expressing your deep interest in them as a potential partner in marriage, and indicating your candidacy as their potential spouse as explained below....
The Proposal Day!® card should not be sent to anyone you wouldn't be completely overjoyed to see thrilled at the idea of becoming your future spouse. Remember....Only give this card to the person who it's your heart's desire to marry. Don't send the Proposal Day!® card unless you are really sure that you would accept their proposal of marriage if they were to propose to you as a result of receiving your card!
The biannual Proposal Day!® Holiday in March and September worldwide is particularly effective in assisting those in long term multi-year relationships who've been drifting along over the years without moving towards their goal of a specific commitment such as 'engaged to be married'. By opening the door on a delicate subject and generating an opportunity for an honest discussion about their future together, the Holiday provides opportunities to discuss the path ahead. Some couples will sense that they'll be making their wedding plans soon, while others will come to an understanding that their existing relationship is comfortable, but it's also unlikely to ever lead to anything serious. By acting as a catalyst, the Proposal Day!® Holiday and the Proposal Day!® greeting card helps the single who is seeking marriage in the relationship avoid unknowingly spending years more searching for a ring within a relationship that does not present that opportunity now and is unlikely to ever present it in future years.
Any day that is special to you, or a day that is special to the one you love, or a day that is meaningful to you both as a couple, will be a truly fine day for your marriage proposal.
Singles who are looking for a special day for their marriage proposal are welcome to propose to their true love on either the first day of Spring or the first day of Autumn --- the day of the Vernal Equinox or the Autumnal Equinox, as these are the two days in the year where day and night are of equal length worldwide, symbolizing the equaility of the two who comprise the successful marriage.
Although few of those who discuss this topic will choose to propose on the Proposal Day!® Holiday itself...still, what's a nice marriage proposal if the exact timing, manner, and method doesn't remain a pleasant mystery?
Only those age eighteen or older can be included on the list of "Most Eligible Singles". Those you nominate to be among the "Most Eligible" should not be married or known to be formally engaged to be married. And, although I appreciate the sincere interest in the Holiday among young teenagers, this Holiday is meant for those who are legally old enough to marry in the jurisdiction in which they live. The Proposal Day!® Holiday must not be used to propose marriage or to indicate your eligibility or to declare your desire for marriage to a person you are legally unable to marry due to state and/or federal laws or the laws of the country of which you are a citizen or subject. When in doubt over any possible legal issue involving your marriage proposal or your indication of eligibility for marriage or your declaration of your desire for marriage to a true love, it's an excellent idea to seek advice from a qualified legal professional well before declaring your eligibility for marriage, candidacy as a potential marriage partner to the one you love, or your actually making a proposal of marriage.
My announcement of the winners of the title of "Most Eligible Single in the World" on the Equinoxes represents my best opinion on this subject, based upon personal research on the topic and your input. As in any subjective matter, your opinion will almost certainly differ from my own. In fact, radio DJ listener surveys on the Proposal Day!® Holiday prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that each radio station audience definitely has their own ideas of who should be named as the most eligible bachelor and bachelorette on each Equinox, and many have strong opinions they're glad to share on this subject.
The twice-yearly Proposal Day!® Holiday generates discussion among eligible singles seeking marriage worldwide on the broad topic of marriage proposals. And occasionally, a radio DJ or the host or hostess of a television show celebrating the Proposal Day!® Holiday will have the opportunity to have an on-the-air Marriage Proposal made during their show!
How can a single seeking marriage use the upcoming Proposal Day!® Holiday Weekend to move forward in your journey from "single" to "engaged to be married to a true love"?
Here's how: On any day throughout the year, you can send your true love a "Proposal Day!"® card revealing your own personal choices for the title of "Most Eligible Bachelor" and "Most Eligible Bachelorette" for the upcoming Proposal Day!® Holiday, thereby expressing your deep interest in them as a potential partner in marriage, and indicating your candidacy as their potential spouse....
For those who prefer to create their own greeting card instead of purchasing one already made, I'm all in favor of those who enjoy arts & crafts creating their own "Proposal Day!"® greeting card revealing their personal choices for the title of "Most Eligible Bachelor" and "Most Eligible Bachelorette" for the upcoming 2016 Vernal Equinox Holiday Weekend, if willing to make a modest contribution in exchange. Those crafting a Proposal Day!® card for their own personal use, but not for commercial use, sale, or resale, may donate two dollars directly to your local animal shelter as symbolic and representative of the better life you hope to create for yourself and your true love; it's a dollar for you and a dollar for your "true love", too! In consideration of your two dollar donation made on behalf of yourself and your true love, please feel free to craft a Proposal Day!® card for your own personal use. Imagine what a blessing your dollars combined with those of others who craft such a Proposal Day!® card for their own personal use will be for the dogs, cats, and other helpless creatures in the shelter who are seeking new forever homes, as well as for those who go to the shelter searching for the right pet to adopt into their family. In this way, the family formation that results from a successful marriage proposal is foreshadowed by your contributing to the health and welfare and a better life ahead for these pets who depend upon the kindness of men and women of good will such as yourself, as they are awaiting homes where they will become loved members of families themselves! Your hand crafted card and monetary donation will work wonders in letting a true love know of your marriage-minded interest and intentions, and also of your compassion in caring for these little pets awaiting their new homes and the families they'll come to love and who will love them in turn.
There are many different approaches you can take on what you'll write in your card. Here's one: On the cover of your card will be a phrase something similar to "Sending you Proposal Day!® Greetings". Then, on the inside of your card, write "Here's my list of the most eligible singles in the world:" Just under that, list those celebrities you consider to be the most eligible man and woman in the world today. And, under that list the names of the man and woman celebrity you believe would be the best to serve if either of your first choices becomes engaged while holding the title of "Most Eligible". Finally, list your true love's name underneath your choices for "Most Eligible Bachelor" and "Most Eligible Bachelorette", and your choices for back-ups. You'll find eligible single candidates among the world's most famous and talented celebrities: Royalty, elite actors, actresses, musicians, singers, athletes, and other newsworthy and noteworthy individuals. If you have trouble making such a list, then feel free to use those four recently announced at this site as your most eligible celebrity singles. Few men or women will feel threatened or slighted by being included in such a listing of prominent world-famous singles. And, who knows? Perhaps after reading that they've been declared world's most eligible recently, Jack Schlossberg and Emma Watson or Prince Harry and Taylor Swift will go on a date to see if they might enjoy each others company. Better yet, how about the four of them going on a double date....
There's no need to include your name with the five names you have on the card. All you will need to do is to indicate your interest simply stated on your card, such as, " I find myself wondering what it'd be like to be married to you....", and signing this simple sentence with your signature. This is plenty open-ended enough to generate the opportunity for discussion leading to motion and momentum! If it seems a little too forward and daring, remember that nothing happens until something moves, and your goal is to create a favorable climate for significant positive motion by making this move yourself in sending this card to your true love that reveals you're looking at them favorably as a potential spouse. Your giving this card to your true love has every chance of being the significant event that sets the wheels in motion leading to your engagement and marriage!
Your "four most eligible celebrity singles" included on the same card with your true love's name and your simply stated message gets the conversational ball rolling forward....and your sending the Proposal Day!® card shows the incredible depth of your commitment to and love for your true love.
The Proposal Day!® greeting card is meant to lead to an understanding between you and your true love of your future together. You've indicated by sending your card that you consider your true love to be among those few you most hope to marry, and that by sending your card you are offering yourself as a potential spouse to the one you love for their consideration. Because of your having taken this decisive move forward in your relationship with your true love by declaring your eligibility to marry, and your interest in them as a potential marriage partner, you'll have an excellent opportunity to learn where you stand in their future plans.
You've made it crystal clear that you want to have a future with your true love as a married couple. Because of your putting yourself on the line, you'll soon learn if the one you love is the true love who shares your deepest desires to live together as a married couple. The Proposal Day!® Holiday and the Proposal Day!® greeting card have assisted you both in your arrival as a couple at the gateway to the fork in the road of your relationship. If your true love shares your desire to create a home together as your spouse, then your relationship will easily move forward to your engagement and your marriage.
I believe that each eligible single has ten thousand "true loves" worldwide out of the more than one billion eligible singles around the globe. Any of these ten thousand eligible singles (who, by definition, are the most compatible and suitable marriage partners in the world for you) would be an excellent spouse for you, and your depth of happiness in marriage will be greatly influenced by your finding and choosing one of your ten thousand "true loves" as the person you eventually decide to marry and have as your one and only "true love".
As of 2015, there are over seven and one-quarter billion humans on planet earth. When examining the latest global population statistics available, we conclude that there are slightly more than one billion eligible singles on planet earth and that we can safely say there are currently at least one billion eligible singles worldwide. So....if an eligible single were to look at this huge number of one billion eligible singles worldwide, and choose 10% of them for further consideration based upon very basic personal preference and compatibility filters, they'd have one hundred million singles meeting their most basic qualifications remaining under consideration. Then, if it were possible to be able to choose the top one percent of this remaining group, we'd have one million singles remaining as potential spouses. Finally, by repeating the process one last time.....choosing the most compatible one percent of singles from among this group of one million, there would be ten thousand singles remaining who would be, by definition, the most compatible singles on earth for you and the best you could possibly choose as your spouse. Look at this one more time - We've first chosen the top ten percent of eligible singles worldwide for your consideration as compatible, then chose the top one percent of these one hundred million, leaving us with one million remaining under consideration as highly compatible. Of these highly compatible million, we again chose the top one percent (representing ten thousand singles who are most compatible with you), leaving us the group from which you can choose a suitable potential spouse with confidence.
No matter how energetic you are, it won't be possible to communicate directly or meet all of your ten thousand "true loves". My opinion is that very few would be able to cope with having simultaneous contact with more than one hundred "true loves" at any time, representing one percent of your pool of "true loves". Therefore, I submit to you that the concept of a one and only "true love" is true, and it becomes true of the one you choose to marry from your pool of ten thousand "true loves"... the top one percent of the top one percent of the ten percentage of the eligible singles in the world; the "creme dela creme" of eligible singles who are most suitable for you and compatible with you. When you are able to identify a person who you believe would meet your needs and desires in your marriage to the extent that you consider this person among the top ten thousand in the world meant for you, then you are identifying one of your "true loves".
Please understand the risk of inaction....one of the greatest enemies of the single seeking marriage is despair. Once a single seeking marriage gives in to the fear that they'll never find their one and only "true love" and that they therefore must be destined to live their life alone, their belief leads them to embrace a static state of emotional paralysis, leading to inactivity in their search for a spouse. The truth is this: First, there are ten thousand "true loves" in this world who would be an excellent spouse for you, and Second, if you are sincere in your desire to marry a person who will become your one and only "true love", you must take action combined with a positive mental attitude that will generate motion toward your goal. Remember...nothing will happen until something moves!
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